Teenage Daughters

So if you have ever had a teenage Daughter you would know how worrying it can be….

Well my oldest Daughter (who is now 15) has gotten herself a boyfriend (who is 17). Now it’s not his age that really bothers my it’s just that she has a boyfriend full stop, but i have made sure that he would never do anything untoward with her as he is now terrified of me. I accomplished this by telling him that if he ever tried to have sex with her before she was of legal age i would chop his winkie right off and his mum and auntie would help me by pinning him down.

Now you might think this was a bit extreme but unless you have got a 15 year old Daughter you can’t really understand especially if it is your first child.

Now this poor boy when he comes and knocks the door for my Daughter he knocks then runs to the gate i asked my Daughter why he does this all she says is that he is just really scared of you mum but luckily my Daughter finds this all very funnyand in a strange way she knows that i only done it to show her how much i care and it wasn’t to stop her having a relationship with him.

Now her boyfriend isn’t one of those bad teens that you hear about, he comes from a very nice family, has very good manners and is very respectfull of women. He also has a very good work ethic and got himself a job straight out of school.

Now i know my Daughter could have chosen worse as a first proper boyfriend so i am gratefull of that, but i also don’t want her to tie herself down to a relationship too soon in her life, i would like her to go on to college and get all of the qualifications she needs for her career choice and have a job for a while before she even thinks about having a serious relationship and starting a family. Basically do everything i didn’t do lol.

All comments are welcome i would like to read the feedback and other people’s views on this.

Published in: on August 4, 2008 at 10:57 am Leave a Comment

Long Time No Speak

Hello to everyone again after a brief few months away i have decided to start blogging again, i know it has been some time so i may be a little rusty at this at first.

I have had the odd reant at friends and family about stuff but nowhere as widespread to vent as my blog. So i hope to have something for you all to read about in a few days time. You wil have to check back to find out for yourself. Tata For now.

Published in: on October 11, 2007 at 12:44 am Leave a Comment

So Called Friends

I have recently had a falling out with a so called friend and i didn’t even know i had!

Confused i was, i had apparently said something, more like my partner was supposed to have said something, to one of my friends’ children about social services and contacting them for him. (more…)

Published in: on March 3, 2007 at 7:39 pm Leave a Comment

Anti-Depressants

We i have taken anti-depressants before, but i think they are just a crutch that have far too many side effects to be worthwhile. (more…)

Published in: on February 15, 2007 at 12:50 am Comments (1)

Obsessed Much

I was just wondering if it is natural to be competitive with your own Daughter. (more…)

Published in: on February 14, 2007 at 8:19 pm Leave a Comment

Family Politics

I would like to have my say on family politics, i found out about week or so ago that that one of my sister is planning to get married in July of this year, now that seems like a good happy event, well i did think that until i heard the “but”, (more…)

Published in: on February 12, 2007 at 10:19 pm Leave a Comment

Hello world this is my first Blog

Hello there this is my first blog on this here wordpress thingy.

I think my first blog has to be the fact that i seem to have turned into my grandmother. (more…)

Published in: on February 11, 2007 at 6:42 pm Comments (1)